Shivangi Sinha
Alysia and Tyler Rodgers were always known as the couple who never held back. They communicated openly and fearlessly and created a relationship that could withstand anything. So when they crossed paths with another couple, Taya and Sean Hartless, and felt an unexpected yet powerful connection, they approached it with open hearts and curiosity. What began as a casual, seemingly innocent date would soon set off a series of events that would forever alter their lives and redefine their understanding of love, partnership, and family. TLC’s ‘Polyfamily’ offers an intimate look into their daily lives as a blended polyamorous family and the uncharted waters of love shared between more than two people.
Alysia and Tyler Had Two Children When They Started Dating Another Couple
Alysia Furman and Tyler Rodgers began dating in 2007, unaware that they had just found lifelong partners in each other. That same year, Alysia faced one of the most heartbreaking moments of her life with the loss of her mother. Through this deeply painful time, Tyler stood by her side as a constant source of strength and support. Their bond only deepened as they navigated life’s challenges together. In 2012, after several years of growing closer, they decided to marry and officially begin their life as a family. Soon after, they welcomed children into their world. Their son, Dillon, was born in 2014, followed by their daughter, Ray, who completed the family they had always dreamed of.
Both Alysia and Tyler had always been open-minded about exploring their sexuality and had long discussed the possibility of connecting with other couples. They were active members of an online forum where like-minded individuals could share experiences and build connections. It was through this platform that, in 2019, they first came across Sean and Taya Hartless. What struck them immediately was how effortlessly the conversation flowed between them. Curious to see if the connection extended beyond the virtual space, Alysia reached out and asked if Sean and Taya would be open to meeting in person. Soon after, the couple made the two-hour drive to meet the Hartlesses. The chemistry was undeniable, but what truly stood out was the comfort they all felt in each other’s presence. While defining the structure and boundaries of a new kind of relationship wasn’t simple, what mattered most was the sense of acceptance and fluid, judgment-free communication.
Alysia and Tyler were always committed to being honest with their children. So, in 2020, when they decided to begin a life together with Sean and Taya, they sat down with their two kids and explained that Sean and Taya would also be part of their family, not just as friends, but as additional parents. To their relief and joy, the children embraced the idea with openness and love. Soon after, the blended family moved into a home together in Lebanon, Oregon, and they haven’t looked back since. Tyler has spoken about the reality of their daily life, acknowledging that, like any family, they experience challenges of jealousy, disagreements, and the occasional friction. But they choose to face those moments head-on. What truly holds them together is their deep love for one another and a shared vision of what home and partnership mean to them.
Alysia and Tyler Are Deeply Satisfied With Their Marriage
Alysia and Tyler have been open about the inner workings of their daily life as a polyamorous quad. Their home is arranged with two bedrooms on opposite ends of the house, and it’s Sean and Tyler who alternate between the rooms each day. In their arrangement, Sean is Alysia’s boyfriend, and Taya is Tyler’s girlfriend, while they remain married to their respective partners. In August 2020, Alysia found out she was pregnant, and on April 3, 2021, she gave birth to a baby boy. The family has chosen not to determine or disclose the biological father, believing that biology is far less important than love, commitment, and presence.
Tyler has reflected on this deeply, sharing that having four devoted adults to raise and care for their children is an incredible gift, one that brings both security and joy into their home. Then, in September 2022, Alysia gave birth to another son, further expanding their unique household. Today, all five children are being raised by the four parents under one roof, surrounded by stability and affection. Alysia and Tyler, who have now been married for 13 years and together for 17, often say there’s very little they cannot overcome.
Alysia and Tyler Work as Electricians in Oregon
Both Tyler and Alysia Rodgers work as electricians and balance demanding careers with family life. Alysia is employed by the City of Lebanon, Oregon, where she serves as an Economic Development Catalyst. Over the years, she has held various positions in similar fields and has contributed to the region’s infrastructure and development. At home, it is Taya Hartless who takes on the role of full-time stay-at-home mother and manages the day-to-day needs of their beautifully blended family of five children.
For all four parents, there is no distinction between “his” and “hers” when it comes to the children. Each child is simply part of their family, deeply loved and equally cherished. However, like any family, they have faced their share of challenges. One of the more personal hurdles has been Alysia’s health journey. She has been candid about discovering a benign tumor in her breast and has since been undergoing regular mammograms and medical check-ups. Through it all, she hasn’t faced a single moment alone. Tyler, Sean, and Taya have stood firmly by her side during every high and low. Their story proves that love, in its many forms, can create something powerful and enduring.
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