Shivangi Sinha
Few relationships in TLC’s ‘90 Day Fiancé’ universe have attracted as much attention as that of Angela Deem and Michael Ilesanmi. The couple made their debut on season 2 of ‘90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days’ and have since appeared in multiple spin-offs and other installments of the franchise. Their relationship has been anything but smooth, often marked by heated arguments, clashes, and intense emotional moments. Their significant age gap and the complex power dynamics between them became recurring points of discussion among fans. When they returned for ‘90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?’ season 8, their growing dissatisfaction with each other became even more apparent.
Angela and Michael Stayed in a Long-Distance Marriage For Years
It was Michael Ilesanmi who first reached out to Angela Deem after coming across her Facebook profile. Living in Lagos, Nigeria, and 22 years younger than Angela, his interest initially raised red flags for her, and she suspected it could be an online scam. However, over time, their conversations deepened, and Angela began to see the potential for a real relationship. In January 2020, she traveled to Nigeria to meet Michael in person for the first time, and during that trip, the couple got married. Though many felt it was rushed, both Angela and Michael believed they had found something real. Visa issues kept them physically apart for years, forcing them to maintain their relationship long-distance. During this time, their problems became increasingly visible.
Angela was often portrayed as controlling, placing restrictions on Michael’s interactions with other women and accusing him of cheating. Michael, meanwhile, struggled with Angela’s decision to undergo cosmetic procedures, which he did not support. The strain took a toll on their relationship and led to a lot of emotional distance. Despite coming close to ending their marriage, the couple opted for therapy and continued working through their differences. After several years of uncertainty, Michael’s visa was finally approved, and in December 2023, he moved to the US. This long-awaited reunion marked a new beginning for the pair, who, despite their many obstacles, remained committed to trying to make their marriage work.
Angela and Michael Are No Longer Together
While there was once hope that Michael and Angela might overcome their long-standing issues, that possibility was shattered in February 2024 when reports surfaced that Michael had left their home in Georgia and gone off on his own. He relocated to Houston, Texas, and has since begun a new chapter of his life. In response, Angela has taken legal steps to annul the marriage and has publicly expressed her desire to have Michael deported back to Nigeria. However, there have been no official updates regarding the status of these legal proceedings. Michael, meanwhile, started a GoFundMe campaign to raise money for legal representation, stating that he needed support to fight the ongoing battles with Angela.
Rumors have circulated about potential misuse of the funds, though no verified claims have been made. The situation has clearly devolved into a bitter feud, with both parties on opposing ends. Angela has repeatedly voiced feelings of betrayal and has spoken harshly about Michael in public, while he has remained relatively quiet and chosen not to engage in a public war of words. Supporters of Michael have praised his decision to leave what they describe as a toxic and controlling relationship, while Angela’s fans continue to back her efforts for justice. As it stands, the couple is no longer together in any meaningful way, and a legal separation seems inevitable. Their once high-profile relationship now appears irreparably broken.
Angela and Michael Are Enjoying Their Popularity as Reality Stars
Angela Deem remains a prominent and recognizable face within the ‘90 Day Fiancé’ franchise. She has continued to build her brand, partnering with companies like Regen Life, which promotes weight loss, and taking part in several other brand collaborations. She frequently travels across the US, hosting fan meet-and-greets and staying actively engaged with her loyal following. Outside of her reality TV persona, she maintains a busy family life with her two daughters, Scottie and Skyla, and is a devoted grandmother to six grandchildren. Despite the chaos in her personal life, she has stayed focused on her career and public presence.
Michael Ilesanmi has kept a much lower profile since his highly publicized split from Angela. While he has occasionally posted online, he’s mostly remained quiet and out of the spotlight. He has been trying to establish himself as an online content creator, though his platform is still growing. Given his past experience in online marketing for a car dealership back in Nigeria, it’s quite possible he has found some work in that field to stay afloat financially. For now, he appears to be rebuilding privately, away from the noise and controversy that once surrounded him.
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