Suvechha Sarkar
Whenever new couples are featured on TLC’s ’90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days,’ it showcases both romance and red flags. Rick Van Vactor and Trisha Stiley’s relationship exemplifies that idea perfectly. The former is a divorced man, but he is also a romantic at heart. That was what paved the path for him to meet Trisha. He considered her the woman who would finally complete his family. On paper, they seemed like a perfect match, with both of them being family-oriented. They spoke openly about building a life together and turning their long-distance romance into something real. However, trouble began with unexpected hostility, sending shockwaves through their connection. It began casting doubt over everything they had planned.
Rick and Trisha Faced Early Trust Issues Before Meeting in Person
Rick Van Vactor met Trisha Stiley through a dating application when he had set the location to Madagascar. That small decision led him to their first online conversation, and eventually a deep connection. Their bond strengthened long before the cameras started rolling, and ultimately, he made the long journey to her homeland to meet her in person for the first time. However, it was overshadowed by tension, as she had been completely unreachable and ghosted him for five days before his arrival. Rick admitted that the silence made him think that she was cheating on him. Ultimately, Trisha opened up that her ex-boyfriend had allegedly blamed her for a robbery that took place at his home. She further claimed that her brother was involved in a scooter accident, and her family was consumed with caring for the injured man.
Trisha truthfully expressed that she hesitated to let Rick know because he might have thought that she was making up a story to ask him for money. Although they began moving past it, things became complicated once again. In a confessional, he divulged that during the five days of silence from Trisha, he believed their relationship was over. Hence, he admitted to reaching out to his ex in Colombia and even visiting her there. He chose not to reveal right away that he had even been intimate with his ex. Meanwhile, Trisha made her intentions clear that she wanted to have children with him. Despite Rick’s secret, he and Trisha worked on reconnecting with each other by exploring Madagascar together, wandering through its vibrant market, and dancing in the streets.
Rick and Trisha’s Bond Does Not Appear to Have Lasted Beyond the Show
As Rick and Trisha’s story unfolded, his secret about visiting Colombia threatened their future together. It raised the possibility that the relationship might not survive after the show ended. Their social media activities have only fueled that speculation. While Rick continues to follow Trisha on Instagram, she no longer does the same, which may indicate that she might not have maintained any contact with him. They have no photos together, no playful comments or tags in their feed. All of these details may suggest that their relationship may not have worked out in the real world. In one instance, Rick had even refused to speak about his ex with her because he wanted to focus on repairing his relationship with Trisha. Whatever the truth may be, we only hope that both of them will continue to flourish in their respective lives with or without each other.
Rick Has Built His Life Around Business, Fitness, and Fatherhood
Outside of the show, Rick Van Vactor is a man who leads a driven life, deeply rooted in family. Professionally, he is the founder of Temple Pure Hair, a hair and extension business inspired by his past, as his ex-wife worked as a hairstylist. He currently runs the full-fledged venture that he proudly promotes through his social media platforms and the brand’s official website. Rick’s commitment to quality becomes evident as he assures his customers that the products are made only with premium materials, ethically sourced from South India. When he is not focused on business, he channels his energy into teaching tap dancing. Rick is also a fitness enthusiast who earned his Fitness Trainer certification in April 2019.
Rick’s rigorous fitness routine helps keep his body in prime condition. Beyond everything, his life is anchored in fatherhood. He is a devoted father of his five adorable children. He always makes it a point to be fully present for them, whether it be playing with them, taking them out for meals, or spending time outdoors, exploring nature, and hiking trails together. He also fosters a close bond with his beloved mother. Additionally, Rick’s love for traveling has taken him to various exotic locations around the globe. In March 2022, he experienced the incredible culture of Mexico, which was followed by his visit to the historical land of India in December 2022. Most recently, in October 2024, Rick traveled to Athens, Greece, where he got the opportunity to visit magnificent monuments.
Trisha is a Midwife and Prefers to Showcase the Beauty of Madagascar
Trisha Stiley’s journey began in Antananarivo, Madagascar. It is the place she proudly calls home, with a culture that continues to shape who she is today. Drawn to caregiving from a very young age, she pursued her education with a clear purpose and finally became a Midwife. Trisha had shared that she chose the profession simply because she loves babies. People can easily catch glimpses of her world through her TikTok and YouTube channels, where her personality, fashion, and love for exploration quietly shine. Outside of her professional life, Trisha embraces a vibrant creative identity. She often refers to herself as the Malagasy Queen.
Trisha utilizes every opportunity to promote the natural beauty, culture, and spirit of her homeland. Another of her passions is traveling, and she often sets out to explore different parts of Madagascar. In October 2025, Trisha traveled to Bali, Indonesia, where the island’s lush tropical beauty surrounded her. Despite her active public presence, she has preferred to keep more information about her personal life under wraps. The reality star loves experimenting with different outfits and enjoys discovering cozy cafes and local restaurants. Whenever Trisha feels overwhelmed by her life, she finds her way to the ocean and dips her feet into the blue water.
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