Hulu’s ‘Dance Moms: A New Era’ highlights the intense world of competitive dance, but naturally, the cast’s personal lives also surface and it often affects performances and team dynamics. In season 2, when Tammi Brudner revealed that her marriage to Alexander Carr was ending, the emotional strain impacted not only her but also her daughter, Audrey Brudner. The stress led to tense moments, on-camera disagreements, and visible difficulties for Audrey in rehearsals. Ultimately, Tammi felt the pressure was overwhelming and made the difficult decision to pull Audrey from the team.
Tammi and Alexander Made a Good Team That Supported Audrey’s Passion for Dance
Tammi Brudner and Alexander Carr married in October 2018, when Audrey was around four or five years old. Their household felt complete with their beloved dog, Minnie Mouse, and a lively circle of friends and relatives who often joined them for celebrations. From enjoying holidays together to taking memorable trips to Disneyland, they embodied the image of a joyful, supportive family. In season 1, Tammi spoke openly about how deeply supportive Alexander had been. While she was heavily involved in Audrey’s dance journey, he ensured stability at home, shared responsibilities and maintained a flexible, balanced routine that kept their family running smoothly.
However, in season 2, Tammi shared that she had moved into an apartment with Audrey as she and Alexander were separating and beginning the divorce process. The change was difficult for both mother and daughter, with Audrey struggling to balance her emotions, school, and the intense demands of competitive dance. At one point, the turmoil became overwhelming, leading Audrey to quit the team. Though she eventually returned, Tammi later admitted that the pressure of managing everything alone was too much. Just before nationals, she made the painful decision to pull Audrey out once again. Despite this setback, it now appears that Audrey has returned to Project X Dance Company, reuniting with her friends and finding her footing once more.
Tammi and Alexander Are Committed to Making Audrey’s Well-Being Their Priority
Tammi Brudner and Alexander Carr remain separated as they navigate what this new phase of their lives will look like. They are working toward stability while supporting Audrey in the best way they can. Neither of them has offered any public explanation about what led to the shift in their relationship or what came between them. They have not removed past photos or erased signs of the affection and memories they once shared, suggesting that there is still respect between them as they go through this transition. Since they are co-parenting Audrey, it’s clear they will need to find a balance that works for everyone involved. Though the situation is undeniably difficult, both appear to be approaching it with maturity.
